Finding people
Updated September 18, 2026
How do I find someone I met at a concert or festival?
You shared a rail spot, a set, a rainstorm or a ride back to the lot, and then forty thousand people went home in different directions. Here's what actually helps.
Use the set, not the venue
Festivals are too big to search. Sets are not. "Front left during the 9:40 set on the second stage" is a place and a time a few hundred people share, not tens of thousands. Fan groups and tour subreddits organize by exactly that, and people post there looking for each other after every show.
The artist's fan community
Most touring artists have a fan Discord, subreddit or Facebook group. Post the set, the spot and a kind description. These communities are used to "looking for the person who…" posts and they're generous about it. Keep it short and say plainly what you're hoping for.
Festivals are too big to search. Sets are not.
Photos and stories
Festival photographers, the artist's photographer and everyone around you were shooting. Search the event hashtag for the set time. Tagged stories expire in a day, so this one is time-sensitive.
Misd was built for exactly this
A Moment on Misd is you and another Misd user at the same place at the same time. At a festival, that's the set you both stood through. Open the day, find the Moment, see who was there, say hello. It removes the part where you have to pick a face out of a crowd, and it works long after the stories are gone.
You both need Misd. It's invite-only today and iOS first, with Android coming.
Questions people ask
- How long after the show can I still find them?
- Fan-community posts live for weeks; photos and stories go fast. A Moment on Misd doesn't expire on you.
- Do I need to have talked to them?
- No. Plenty of people look for someone they only shared a look or a laugh with. Just be honest about that when you reach out.
- Will the artist's team help?
- Almost never, and that's fine. The fan community is the right door.
Misd is invite-only
iOS today, Android soon. Get a code and bring your people.